First Swim Lesson

Dotty had her first swim lesson yesterday with Ms. Sylvia. Dotty was super excited and I was super HOT (note to self...heated indoor pools feel good when you are in the water in your bathing suit...they do not feel good when you are outside the pool in UGG boots and two layers of shirts!).

Ms. Sylvia had Dotty blow bubbles on the steps at first but soon Dotty was asking to go "swimming". So Ms. Sylvia grabbed a water noodle and off they went. I couldn't hear everything Ms. Sylvia was telling Dotty but the big smile on Dotty's face was all I needed to know that everything was going well.

After about 15 minutes, Ms. Sylvia brought Dotty back towards the steps and ditched the noodle for a belt that had floats attached to it. Ms. Sylvia even asked me if Dotty had already been to lessons before. She said Dotty was doing a great job and listening to instructions well. Me being a very humble mother, I of course responded with a big smile and some sort of statement that include the words "gifted, talented, and future Olympian" in it.

After the full 30 minutes and two (yes I said two) full laps in the lap pool I could see Dotty was getting tired and losing her ability to focus. As the session ended Ms. Sylvia asked Dotty to practice putting her face in the water. After five attempts Dotty gave up and wanted out (good thing they don't give out gold medals for that portion of swimming in the Olympics).

We both thanked Ms. Sylvia and headed to the locker room. As I was changing Dotty she said she had a lot of fun at her swim lessons but she didn't like putting her face in the water. As we walked to the car Dotty said again, "I had a lot of fun swimming. Good thing I don't have to go back."

Hmmmm...Let's hope swim lessons are like child birth...you forget the painful parts.

Talking to God

Lately Dotty has said some pretty funny and sweet things in regards to God. Here are a few.

One day we were playing at a park and it was a truly beautiful day. Dotty puckered up big and made a smacking sound. Then she said, "I kissed the Day, Mommy."
I said, "God made this perfect day you know?"
Dotty said, "I have a kiss for God too but I am saving it until I see Him."
Pretty cute, huh?!?

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Another day Dotty really wanted to go to a park but it was getting late and it was cold and windy. She even tried to bargain with me and asked to go to the indoor park at McDonalds. I still said no.
When we got in bed that night and said our prayers Dotty said, "Thank you for flowers and princesses and my toys. And God please make sure that when Mommy picks me up from school tomorrow she takes me to the park at McDonalds."
Apparently Dotty skipped a few levels on the chain of command and went straight to the Big Guy Upstairs.

By the way...her prayer was answered.

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Last night Dotty's prayer was fairly long and included not only a small version of the Little Mermaid story but it also included an original song by Dotty. I think I dozed off at some point.
When I heard the loud "AMEN!" I was slightly startled but told Dotty she said a very good prayer.
She said "Thank you Momma. I think God likes my prayers. You might want to work on yours."

Point taken.

Marriage Minded

Sunday night without warning Dotty started tearing up. She pouted her lower lip out and said through a teary voice...

"Daddy said I can't get married."
I said, "Well who do you want to marry?"
Dotty, "Cooper Gee"

I stifled a laugh then said, "Perhaps when you are older you can get married...to whoever you want."

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Yesterday on the way home from Memaw's house Dotty asked me, "Are you married?"
I said, "No. But I was married to your Daddy at one time." (Dotty has seen our wedding pictures and has had a lot of questions about us being married lately.)
Dotty waited a minute then she said, "Well I am going to marry Daddy when I get to be your size."
I simply replied, "I think all little girls want to marry their daddies."

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This morning when I dropped off Dotty to Mrs. Hall I warned her to watch for a flying bouquet!

Flattery Is A Girl's Best Friend

Today when I took Dotty to school all the kids were playing in the Atrium. There are not many children at school this week due to Spring Break, so all the classes were combined and the kids were running around like crazy. Dotty has never been a big fan of the Atrium (I think because it is so loud in there) and today she was really dreading going inside.

We put her lunch up in her room and all her stuff in her cubby. Dotty had a death grip on my leg.

She asked, "Will you play with me in the atrium?"
I replied, " I only have a few minutes, but we can bounce the ball a few times."

We walked inside the madhouse...I mean Atrium...and Dotty was glued to the back of my legs. Several teachers told us hello and complimented Dotty on how nice she looked (the teachers do this everyday so that is really not a shocker).

Side Note...Dotty did look very cute today though...if I do say so myself. She had on a t-shirt dress that has a very full, very ruffly skirt attached to it. Dotty loves it and she has worn it before.

Back to the story...

As we walked further inside the Atrium, a little girl from Dotty's class came up to her and told Dotty she liked her dress (she had to do this looking between my legs because Dotty had her face hid in the back of my knees...very fun for me I must say). With that compliment, Dotty peaked around me and smiled at her friend.

Then a little boy came running up saying "Dotty, you look so pretty today!"

At that point I was a distant memory.

Dotty started twirling around and basking in all the adoration of her peers.

I blew her a kiss (that she never even saw) and headed for the door.

Big Brother...Big Voice

Jake and I have always approached life very differently. For those of you who think I have a short fuse and a loud voice...you have not seen anything until you have seen my brother. Growing up, I learned that Jake's bark was way worse than his bite...but I also steered clear of his teeth...so to speak.

I try not to yell at Dotty for every little thing. I try to talk to her and give her choices. I do occasionally raise my voice, but I try to keep that at a minimum. Especially when it is just the two of us, all I have to do is give her a knowing look and she usually does as she is told.

Of course, when Memaw is around all bets are off.

Last night, Memaw brought Presley and Dotty over to Jake and Keri's house where I was planning on getting Dotty and taking her home. Memaw wanted to go for a walk, so she was leaving shortly after getting the girls squared away. Presley kissed Memaw goodbye...Dotty hung on to Memaw for dear life.

Just as I was calmly telling Dotty to let go of Memaw, Jake (who was standing only about 2 feet away from Dotty) told Dotty to let go of Memaw....NOW! He told her to do this in a rather loud and scary voice...at least it seemed that way to Dotty.

The look on Dotty's face was one of pure fear...and she went running and sobbing to me. Memaw left very quickly (she is not a fan of the girls crying...for any reason). Jake, of course, did not like to see Dotty cry, but he also didn't know what she was so upset about. That is the volume and tone he uses with everyone...Presley, Keri, Mom, Dad, me...everyone. Jake wasn't mad, he was just wanting Dotty to do what she was being asked.

I calmed Dotty down. She wanted to leave that minute. Jake tried to hug her but Dotty would have nothing to do with him.

After only about 30 seconds, Presley asked Dotty if she wanted to watch a movie and Dotty (wiping away tears and snot) nodded her head slowly. A half hour later I was having to make Dotty leave...she didn't want to. She was having too much fun with her uncle Jake and cousin Presley.

While I have no doubt Dotty remembers that Jake "yelled" at her, I also know that Dotty knows he wasn't trying to be mean to her...he was wanting her to do as she was being told. I am glad to say that the evening ended with hugs and kisses all around.

Flower Cake

The other night Memaw and Dotty were playing in Dotty's kitchen. They were pretending to make a cake. Memaw had the bowl and she was telling Dotty what to get to add to the "cake mix".

First Memaw told Dotty she needed milk. So Dotty pretended to pour in some milk. Memaw started mixing.

Then Memaw said she needed some eggs. So Dotty pretended to crack some eggs and add them in. Memaw kept mixing.

Then Memaw said she needed some flour. Dotty ran out of the toy room. Memaw had no idea what was up.

About 10 seconds later Dotty came back holding a handful of henbit (the purple "flower" weeds that are growing everywhere...Dotty picks several everyday before she goes into the house). Dotty then threw the henbit in Memaw's bowl.

When Memaw looked at Dotty and asked her why she added them to the bowl Dotty responded by saying "You told me you needed flowers Memaw."

Memaw started mixing again...trying hard not to laugh.

So my child may never make it as baker but I can assure you she comes from a long line of master gardeners and so far it looks like she definitely has a green thumb!

Compliments From A 3 Year Old

At night Dotty gets really chatty when she is trying to fight off sleep. She talks about a lot of random things.

Sea lions, Mulan, flowers, Mrs. Hall, Cooper Gee, Nana's car, Daddy's nose, Memaw's apartment, and so forth and so on...

There is really no rhyme or reason to any of it. She just rambles. Sometimes I have a hard time not laughing...sometimes I have a hard time not demanding she stop talking and go to sleep...usually I just listen quietly.

Last night we were face to face on her pillow. Dotty's eyes had already closed several times for several seconds. I was just about to close my own eyes when I felt Dotty's little hand on my face.

Dotty said, "Mommy, you are so beautiful."
Me "Thank you...so are you."
Dotty "And Mommy you are so kind and so much fun and you have pretty eyes..."
Me "Ohhh..thank you sweetheart. You make me feel so good. I love you."
Dotty "I love you too Mommy. And you know what else?"
Me "What?"
Dotty "You have stinky breath."
Then Dotty's eyes shut and she was sound asleep.

Now being the great mother that I am...I kissed my sweet baby girl on the cheek...and went to brush my teeth...again.